Putting the romance back into riding

I have loved horses all my life. To me, they have always represented freedom, beauty, power and grace. They are beauty embodied and reflect it with every movement. Riding, for me, has never been about adrenaline or sport, but about communication and being able to share in God's wonderful gift of creation that is the horse. Over the past seven years, through a variety of reasons, that 'romantic' view has been destroyed and horses have become unpredictable, frightening, cruel, vicious animals in my eyes. I wanted to get back riding this year because I didn't want to give up without doing it one more time and I wanted to do it for the sport and to lose weight - in other words, for all the wrong reasons. I wanted Humphries to help me get back riding because he is smaller than Cori and Cori frightens me at the moment. I thought it would be simple, not realising that without my love of horses and a desire to communicate with them, there was no way I could get past my fear.

And now Humphries has come along and is working his hardest to restore my faith and love in horses - yes, my romantic view. He could very well be the perfect horse. He is better than any horse depicted in a book.

I went out to the stables this afternoon to see Humphries. I haven't seen him in ages and I was looking forward to seeing him, but I was still nervous when I arrived. Humphries and Cheyanna are now in the walled in garden just off the stable yard and have full access to the yard with the goats and the donkeys. They have been there awhile but I haven't been over since they were moved out of the field. Michele kept me up to date with tales of Humphries and Cheyanna sneaking into the stables and being generally curious and mischievous. I didn't bring my camera with me, so no pictures for this post, sorry. I went out to the garden to say hello to Humphries. I was armed with a handful of horse nuts. Humphries was grazing with Cheyanna and they both looked up and came over to say hello. I was nervous at how Cheyanna would be when she came over, but I didn't say anything to her because she is good friends with Humphries and if she is his friend, then that is good enough for me. Rags decided it would be a great game to chase Cheyanna around the field and started barking at her. Humphries ignored this entirely, and Cheyanna was really good at ignoring it as well, but then I twitched a bit when Cheyanna got a bit twitchy and Cheyanna took off and raced into the yard. Humphries stayed chatting to me, happy to calmly eat his horse nuts, but when I went to see what was going on, he went into the yard after Cheyanna and trotted around. The next thing, J.B exploded into the garden doing the most impressive trot, followed by Rags. I imagined a terrible scenario with Michele battered by frightened horses and a bad case of rope burn, but she appeared a minute later in one piece, let J.B out of the garden and caught Rags. Apparently Cheyanna had barrelled into the stable with J.B, seeking solace, and broke the chain across the stable door, thus releasing J.B. Anyway, with Rags safely in the jeep after exercising the horses, Michele tacked up J.B and took him into the arena to ride. Humphries came back out of the garden to see me (after trotting off to make sure J.B wasn't stealing Cheyanna) and he followed me around and was very sweet. I went into the stable and got my grooming kit. Humphries stood quietly in the stable, but I decided to groom him outside. Humphries stood perfectly still while I groomed him, despite not being tied up and with Cheyanna peering at me over his back. After I had brushed his body and legs and face and picked out his hooves, I went up to the water trough to wet his face and dock sponges. He followed me up to the water and stood perfectly while I washed his eyes, nostrils and dock. Then I went back to the stable to leave my grooming kit back. He came back with me and I chatted with him for a while and then he wandered back into the garden with Cheyanna. He was so gentle and sweet, he knew exactly how to set me at my ease. He is the perfect horse.

I brushed out the stable and went into the arena to watch Michele. She was jumping J.B and he was going really well. He looked really compact and forward going. He knocked one of the jumps and it annoyed him so much, he reached down into the bit with a perfect outline and moved forward and upwards with power and energy. It looked fantastic. His jumps were really good.

After Michele had ridden him, she gave him some food and left him back into the stable. Then we went home. I am so glad I went over to see Humphries today. I know I'm not riding at the moment, but seeing him today has made a much bigger stride towards me riding again than an hour standing on the mounting block.